Jun 02 【每日活水】控制情绪,慢慢动怒

 

以斯帖记1:9~22

王后瓦实提亚哈随鲁王的宫内也为妇女设摆筵席。
10  第七日,亚哈随鲁王饮酒,心中快乐,就吩咐在他面前侍立的七个太监米户幔比斯他哈波拿比革他亚拔他西达甲迦, 
11  请王后瓦实提头戴王后的冠冕到王面前,使各等臣民看她的美貌,因为她容貌甚美。 
12  王后瓦实提却不肯遵太监所传的王命而来,所以王甚发怒,心如火烧。
13-14  那时,在王左右常见王面、国中坐高位的,有波斯米底亚的七个大臣,就是甲示拿示达押玛他他施斯米力玛西拿米母干,都是达时务的明哲人。按王的常规,办事必先询问知例明法的人。王问他们说: 
15 「王后瓦实提不遵太监所传的王命,照例应当怎样办理呢?」 
16  米母干在王和众首领面前回答说:「王后瓦实提这事,不但得罪王,并且有害于王各省的臣民; 
17  因为王后这事必传到众妇人的耳中,说:『亚哈随鲁王吩咐王后瓦实提到王面前,她却不来』,她们就藐视自己的丈夫。 
18  今日波斯米底亚的众夫人听见王后这事,必向王的大臣照样行;从此必大开藐视和忿怒之端。 
19  王若以为美,就降旨写在波斯米底亚人的例中,永不更改,不准瓦实提再到王面前,将她王后的位分赐给比她还好的人。 
20  所降的旨意传遍通国(国度本来广大),所有的妇人,无论丈夫贵贱都必尊敬他。」 
21  王和众首领都以米母干的话为美,王就照这话去行, 
22  发诏书,用各省的文字、各族的方言通知各省,使为丈夫的在家中作主,各说本地的方言。
9   Queen Vashti also gave a banquet for the women in the royal palace of King Xerxes.
10  On the seventh day, when King Xerxes was in high spirits from wine, he commanded the seven eunuchs who served him—Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha, Abagtha, Zethar and Karkas— 
11  to bring before him Queen Vashti, wearing her royal crown, in order to display her beauty to the people and nobles, for she was lovely to look at. 
12  But when the attendants delivered the king’s command, Queen Vashti refused to come. Then the king became furious and burned with anger.
13  Since it was customary for the king to consult experts in matters of law and justice, he spoke with the wise men who understood the times 
14  and were closest to the king—Karshena, Shethar, Admatha, Tarshish, Meres, Marsena and Memukan, the seven nobles of Persia and Media who had special access to the king and were highest in the kingdom.
15  “According to law, what must be done to Queen Vashti?” he asked. “She has not obeyed the command of King Xerxes that the eunuchs have taken to her.”
16  Then Memukan replied in the presence of the king and the nobles, “Queen Vashti has done wrong, not only against the king but also against all the nobles and the peoples of all the provinces of King Xerxes. 
17  For the queen’s conduct will become known to all the women, and so they will despise their husbands and say, ‘King Xerxes commanded Queen Vashti to be brought before him, but she would not come.’ 
18  This very day the Persian and Median women of the nobility who have heard about the queen’s conduct will respond to all the king’s nobles in the same way. There will be no end of disrespect and discord.
19  “Therefore, if it pleases the king, let him issue a royal decree and let it be written in the laws of Persia and Media, which cannot be repealed, that Vashti is never again to enter the presence of King Xerxes. Also let the king give her royal position to someone else who is better than she. 
20  Then when the king’s edict is proclaimed throughout all his vast realm, all the women will respect their husbands, from the least to the greatest.”
21  The king and his nobles were pleased with this advice, so the king did as Memukan proposed. 
22  He sent dispatches to all parts of the kingdom, to each province in its own script and to each people in their own language, proclaiming that every man should be ruler over his own household, using his native tongue.
 

内容观察

1.当瓦实提王后不肯遵照王命前来,亚哈随鲁王作何反应?(12节)

2.米慕干在王和众官长提议如何处理瓦实提的问题?(19节)

 

思考与默想

 

3.米慕干为什么说,只要废了瓦实提,全国的妻子就会尊敬丈夫?
 

个人感受

4.看到亚哈随鲁王同意米慕干的话,不假思索地照做,我有什么感想?
 

决心与应用

5.我何时曾因为情绪激动而犯下错误?

6.为了在情绪波动时,能够控制自己的心,不致陷入罪中,我决定要怎么做?

饮酒,心中快乐(10节):宴席最后一天,亚哈随鲁王似乎已经喝酒喝到意识模糊。
瓦实提王后却不肯……前来(12节):有解经认为王命有不妥之处,也有人认为是瓦实提过于傲慢。

灵/修指南

亚哈随鲁王为了向众百姓炫耀瓦实提王后的美貌,就派了太监去请瓦实提头戴王后的冠冕到王的面前,但瓦实提王后却不肯遵照太监所传的王命前来。
这里值得注意的是亚哈随鲁王对此的反应, Bible 用“怒火中烧”来形容他当时的反应(12节),可见他已经不顾事情的对错,完全被自己的愤怒所控制。米慕干为了讨王的欢心,向王提议降旨废了瓦实提的王后之位,理由是她违抗王命的行为会给全国的妻子树立坏榜样。王接受了米慕干的提议,下诏废了瓦实提。最终,亚哈随鲁王没能胜过自己的情绪,又听信谗言,意气用事,结果造成了破坏性的后果。
我们要把感情用事的亚哈随鲁王当作负面教材,学会控制情绪,竭力保守自己的心,作成熟的 JI DU 徒。
 

内室dao告

求 SHEN 保守我在情绪波动的时候,能够控制自己的情绪,持守 JI DU 徒的圣洁品格。

 

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